The Regulated Child

Online Course

You are here because most parenting advice that is on offer just doesn’t fit your child. I absolutely get that because I was once where you are right now. I’m Nicola McAllister, professionally I have over 25 years experience in the field of child development and behaviour and just over 10 years experience of putting that into practice as a mum of an autistic child.

Over the years I have translated what I know as a trauma informed teacher and advisor into how I parent my own children at home, and it has been a game changer. The big winners have been my autistic son and my teenage daughter, not to mention a less stressed mum and dad!

I have now pulled all of this together into a comprehensive online course. This is a one stop shop. There is no need to be scrolling social media for answers or buying numerous books that don’t hit the mark. This will provide you with everything you need to know.

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Course Content.

This comprehensive online training programme consists of:

·   31 informative videos.   Videos range from 5 to 15 minutes.  Each video focuses on a specific concept.  They will guide you through the process step by step and provide you with lots of practical suggestions.  They are specifically designed for busy parents and professionals who don’t have lots of time available.  You can go back and watch the videos as often as you want.  

·  Information Book.  The Information Book contains chapters which correspond to each learning video.  It allows you the opportunity to re-visit and reflect.  It breaks down the ideas even further and provides additional information and visual supports.

·  Thinking Space Book.  The Thinking Space Book is a reflective tool which encourages you to stop and think about what you have learned while relating the learning to your child or children.  Prompts for reflective thinking are provided for each module to keep you on track.

Each broad topic is split into 5 or 6 short chapters. The broad topics are:

  • Lifting the Lid off Behaviour

  • Your Child’s Unique Biology

  • The Adult Response

  • Settling Your Child Using the Senses

  • The Power of Relationships in Transforming Outcomes

  • Creating Positive Habits and Routines that Last

  • Staying on Top by Topping Ourselves Up

Lifelong ownership

The Regulated Child online training programme is a one-time purchase.  You have unlimited access to the resource as well as any updated or supplementary material that may be added.  This gives you the flexibility to work through the modules at your own pace and revisit the content at different stages of your child’s development.

A one time payment or spread the cost over 3 months.

Join my online course now.
£150.00
One time
£50.00
For 3 months

If you are parenting a child who requires a much higher level of support and care to navigate the daily demands of life, then this course is for you. It has been developed as your guide, which will help you understand your child better, meet them where they are at and support them to thrive. It reflects real life challenges and how you can overcome them. I guarantee you will revisit the content again and again as your child grows and develops. You are not alone.


✓ It is written by a mum who has walked in your shoes
✓ She breaks down the complicated stuff and keeps it real
✓ Life is busy and stressful, you can dip in and dip out
✓ You will understand your child better than you ever have
✓ You will believe in yourself as a parent again!